Girl, Date the Good Guy | Dating Advice, Love, Relationships, Broken Heart, Single

17: How to Stop Loving from Survival Mode

Emily Jordan explores "survival mode" — the fear-driven way we love after being hurt — and how it shows up in dating, identity, and faith. She identifies signs you're loving from survival, shares a kingdom perspective, and offers four practical steps to shift into healed, secure, God-centered love.
Tune in for encouragement, scripture, and simple practices to stop chasing, learn to receive, and prepare your heart to receive the next healthy love God has for you.
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16: 7 Signs You're Finally Loving From a Healed Heart

Sis… this is the episode your healed heart has been waiting for.If you’ve ever wondered, “Am I really growing? Am I really healing? Am I truly ready for Godly love?” — this one will speak straight to your spirit.
We’re unpacking the 7 signs that you’re no longer loving from fear, survival mode, or trauma — but from peace, maturity, and God-led transformation.This episode will leave you encouraged, grounded, and in awe of how far God has brought you.
Press play, sis.Your healing is showing — and this episode will help you see it.
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15 | "How to Love from a Healed Heart"

Host Emily Jordan guides listeners through what it means to love from a healed heart—moving from pain to peace, setting wise boundaries, and finding identity in God rather than validation from others.
Through gentle encouragement and spiritual truth, this episode helps you embrace patience in healing and prepares you to love well when the right person arrives.
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14 | Where are you in your journey?

In today’s episode of Girl, Date the Good Guy, we’re diving deep into where you are on your journey — breaking toxic cycles, healing from heartbreak, and preparing your heart for the kind of love that honors God.If you’ve ever found yourself stuck in cycles of pain, questioning if God still has a plan for your heart — this episode is for you.You’ll walk away with clarity on your season, strength to keep going, and practical steps to begin healing, waiting, and receiving what’s truly meant for you.
Because Sis, the truth is — God’s love story for you is still being written… and it’s far better than anything you’ve been through. 💛
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13 | God’s Best is Always Worth the Wait” (Birthday + Giveaway Episode)

This episode is raw, real, and straight from my heart. 💔💖
After years of heartbreak, healing, and waiting on God, I’ve learned that His love story for your life will always be better than the one you tried to write on your own. In this special birthday episode, I’m sitting down unscripted to talk about the heart of God for His daughters — how the cycles we keep repeating have to break so we can finally receive His best.
For ten years, I waited. I stayed celibate. I healed. I prayed. And then… God sent me my godly man. 💍But before I ever said yes to him, I went straight to God — and He confirmed it in the most beautiful way. (You’ll want to hear that story.)
This episode isn’t just about my story — it’s about yours.Because the same God who showed up for me… is getting ready to show up for you, too.
So if you’ve ever wondered if you’re waiting in vain, if love still exists, or if God even sees your heart — sis, this one’s for you.
Take a deep breath. Let’s talk about healing, alignment, and the kind of love that’s always worth the wait.
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12 | “Fruit Over Feelings: How to Recognize a Mature, Godly Man”

In today’s episode, Emily dives deep into what a mature, Godly man really looks like—not just the image, but the integrity. For the woman tired of heartbreak and false promises, this episode offers hope, healing, and truth. You’ll learn how to identify true fruit in a man’s life, understand what godly character looks like, and gain the wisdom to discern who’s truly walking with God. If you’ve ever asked, “How do I know if he’s a good guy?”—this episode is your roadmap to seeing love through Heaven’s eyes.
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11 | Seven Spiritual Signs He's From God

In this episode, Emily Jordan shares seven spiritual signs to help you discern whether the person you’re dating is truly sent from God — from mutual spiritual growth and honest accountability to shared values, community affirmation, attraction, and peace about your future.
She weaves personal testimony with practical homework questions to guide your prayerful discernment, encouraging you to wait, test the fruit, and keep Jesus at the center as you seek God‑given love.
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10 | “Milestones, Freedom, and God’s Timing”

This one is personal.
Ten episodes in — and I can feel the weight of what God has done. What started as pain, He’s turning into purpose. What once broke me, He’s now using to heal others.
This episode is more than a milestone; it’s a testimony. To every woman who’s ever felt unseen, unheard, or stuck in a cycle she didn’t know how to break — this one’s for you.
I’ve walked through emotional and financial abuse. I’ve carried blame that wasn’t mine. I’ve stayed when God said, “It’s time to go.” But I’ve also seen what happens when you finally choose freedom, even when it costs you everything.
God set me free so I could start this podcast. And now, women are listening from all over the world — proof that nothing you walk through is wasted.
Wherever you are in your journey, I want you to know: God sees you. He hasn’t forgotten you. And His best for you is still ahead.
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9 | When God's Gift Feels Scary: Learning to Trust After Toxic Love

Host Emily Jordan shares her journey from a decade of healing after a toxic marriage to learning how to trust a godly, patient partner God sent. She talks about relationship anxiety, the process of relearning what safe love feels like, and using Scripture and the fruit of the Spirit to recognize God’s confirmation in a relationship.
Emily encourages listeners to lean on God, communicate needs, pay attention to the fruit of the relationship, and allow themselves to enjoy the blessing without living in constant suspicion—reminding us that God’s best brings peace and helps us heal.
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8 | Sent to Hurt or Sent to Heal? Spot the Difference

Emily Jordan explains how to tell when a relationship is meant to heal you versus when it's meant to hurt you, showing how charm can hide harmful intentions and how God's love brings peace, alignment with purpose, and spiritual growth.
She encourages healing, prayer, and discernment so listeners can recognize partnerships that build them up in faith rather than drain them.
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