Girl, Date the Good Guy ™ | Toxic Relationship, Breakup, Heartbreak, Broken Heart, Red Flags

So... you're fresh out of a breakup, sitting in heartbreak, healing from a broken heart after a toxic relationship, or finally seeing the red flags you missed along the way.

Or maybe you've finally found a good man, but you can't stop crashing out because safe love feels scary.

If you're asking yourself, "Where do I go from here?"

Sis... welcome to your Holy Rescue.

Girl, Date the Good Guy is a Christian podcast for women healing after heartbreak who are ready to stop the bleeding, surrender the past, draw closer to God, renew their minds through His truth, and step into Holy Alignment so they can recognize, receive, and build Holy Love... this time, with God.

Hi, I'm Emily Jordan. I have mud on my boots, scars on my heart, and I know what it feels like to be in the trenches.

I've stood where you're standing - the heartbreak, the confusion, the overthinking, the disappointment, and the moments you wonder if you will ever feel like yourself again.

But I have also experienced what happens when you finally surrender control, give God the pen, and lay everything at the altar so He can do the healing only He can do.

Because here's the truth: You cannot hold the promise while you’re still bleeding from the past.

Together, we'll heal what heartbreak tried to destroy, evict the squatters in our minds, strengthen our relationship with God, learn to hear His voice, sharpen our discernment, break unhealthy cycles, and date from healing—not our wounds.

Are you ready for your Holy Exhale?

Let's heal.

Let's rise.

And when God says it's time...

Let's love.

Welcome to Girl, Date the Good Guy.

Your Holy Rescue begins now. 👑🤍

New episodes drop every Thursday at 5 AM.

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Episodes

Nov 26, 2025

8 min

In this breakthrough episode, Emily Jordan explores how “survival mode” affects dating, identity, and faith after emotional wounds.
You’ll learn how fear-based love develops, how it shows up in relationships, and four practical steps to shift into secure, God-centered love. Through Scripture and coaching wisdom, Emily equips women to stop chasing and start receiving healthy love.
Perfect for women ready to heal deeply and prepare for lasting relationships.
 
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You’ll also be the first to know when new pieces are released from The Vault—a curated collection of creations, books, resources, and meaningful pieces designed to encourage your heart and remind you of the truths God is writing in your story.
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Nov 21, 2025

13 min

Are you really healing? Are you truly ready for Godly love?
In this encouraging episode, Emily Jordan unpacks seven signs that show you’re no longer loving from trauma, fear, or survival mode—but from peace, confidence, and spiritual maturity.
This episode celebrates growth, transformation, and God’s restoring work in your heart.
 
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You’ll also be the first to know when new pieces are released from The Vault—a curated collection of creations, books, resources, and meaningful pieces designed to encourage your heart and remind you of the truths God is writing in your story.
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Nov 14, 2025

4 min

In this nurturing episode, Emily Jordan teaches how to move from pain to peace by learning to love from a healed, whole, and God-centered heart.
You’ll learn how to establish biblical boundaries, find identity in Christ, and release the need for validation from others. This episode prepares you for healthy love rooted in emotional and spiritual maturity.
Ideal for women rebuilding after heartbreak.
 
💌 Join The Holy Rescue Love Letters
Receive weekly encouragement, biblical truth, podcast updates, and behind-the-scenes moments from Emily straight to your inbox.
You’ll also be the first to know when new pieces are released from The Vault—a curated collection of creations, books, resources, and meaningful pieces designed to encourage your heart and remind you of the truths God is writing in your story.
Join the Love Letters and be part of the journey.
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⭐ Help More Women Find This MessageLeave a review on Apple Podcasts and share this episode with a woman who needs this rescue.
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Nov 12, 2025

9 min

In this reflective episode, Emily Jordan helps listeners identify where they are in their healing, dating, and faith journey.
Whether you’re breaking toxic relationship patterns, healing from heartbreak, or preparing for God-led love, this episode provides clarity, encouragement, and practical next steps.
You’ll leave with renewed faith that God’s love story for you is still unfolding.
 
💌 Join The Holy Rescue Love Letters
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You’ll also be the first to know when new pieces are released from The Vault—a curated collection of creations, books, resources, and meaningful pieces designed to encourage your heart and remind you of the truths God is writing in your story.
Join the Love Letters and be part of the journey.
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⭐ Help More Women Find This MessageLeave a review on Apple Podcasts and share this episode with a woman who needs this rescue.
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Nov 7, 2025

8 min

What does a mature, Godly man really look like—beyond words and appearances?
In this powerful episode, Emily Jordan teaches how to identify true spiritual fruit, integrity, and emotional maturity in relationships. You’ll learn how to stop confusing chemistry with character and discern who is truly walking with God.
This episode offers essential Christian dating advice for women tired of heartbreak and ready for healthy, Christ-centered love.
 
💌 Join The Holy Rescue Love Letters
Receive weekly encouragement, biblical truth, podcast updates, and behind-the-scenes moments from Emily straight to your inbox.
You’ll also be the first to know when new pieces are released from The Vault—a curated collection of creations, books, resources, and meaningful pieces designed to encourage your heart and remind you of the truths God is writing in your story.
Join the Love Letters and be part of the journey.
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⭐ Help More Women Find This MessageLeave a review on Apple Podcasts and share this episode with a woman who needs this rescue.
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Nov 5, 2025

11 min

In this faith-filled episode, Emily Jordan shares seven biblical signs to help Christian women discern whether the person they’re dating is truly sent by God.
From spiritual growth and accountability to shared values, peace, and community affirmation, this episode provides practical tools for prayerful discernment. You’ll learn how to test the fruit, communicate wisely, and keep Jesus at the center of your relationship.
Perfect for women seeking clarity while waiting for God’s best.
 
💌 Join The Holy Rescue Love Letters
Receive weekly encouragement, biblical truth, podcast updates, and behind-the-scenes moments from Emily straight to your inbox.
You’ll also be the first to know when new pieces are released from The Vault—a curated collection of creations, books, resources, and meaningful pieces designed to encourage your heart and remind you of the truths God is writing in your story.
Join the Love Letters and be part of the journey.
👉 https://girldatethegoodguy.com
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⭐ Help More Women Find This MessageLeave a review on Apple Podcasts and share this episode with a woman who needs this rescue.
🤍 Connect with Emilyhello@girldatethegoodguy.com

Nov 4, 2025

4 min

In this deeply personal milestone episode, host Emily Jordan reflects on how God transformed her pain, abuse, and heartbreak into purpose, healing, and global impact.
Emily shares her journey through emotional and financial abuse, misplaced blame, and difficult obedience—and how choosing freedom led to restoration and calling. This episode offers hope to women breaking toxic cycles and learning to trust God’s timing in relationships.
If you’ve ever felt unseen, stuck, or forgotten, this episode will remind you that nothing you’ve walked through is wasted.
 
💌 Join The Holy Rescue Love Letters
Receive weekly encouragement, biblical truth, podcast updates, and behind-the-scenes moments from Emily straight to your inbox.
You’ll also be the first to know when new pieces are released from The Vault—a curated collection of creations, books, resources, and meaningful pieces designed to encourage your heart and remind you of the truths God is writing in your story.
Join the Love Letters and be part of the journey.
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⭐ Help More Women Find This MessageLeave a review on Apple Podcasts and share this episode with a woman who needs this rescue.
🤍 Connect with Emilyhello@girldatethegoodguy.com

Nov 1, 2025

4 min

After years of healing from a toxic marriage, host Emily Jordan shares how she learned to trust again when God brought a patient, emotionally safe, and spiritually aligned partner into her life.
This episode addresses relationship anxiety, fear after heartbreak, and the challenge of receiving healthy love after emotional wounds. Using Scripture and the fruit of the Spirit, Emily explains how to recognize God’s confirmation and walk in peace instead of suspicion.
If you’re learning how to date God’s way after toxic love, this episode will help you rebuild trust and embrace Christ-centered relationships.
 
💌 Join The Holy Rescue Love Letters
Receive weekly encouragement, biblical truth, podcast updates, and behind-the-scenes moments from Emily straight to your inbox.
You’ll also be the first to know when new pieces are released from The Vault—a curated collection of creations, books, resources, and meaningful pieces designed to encourage your heart and remind you of the truths God is writing in your story.
Join the Love Letters and be part of the journey.
👉 https://girldatethegoodguy.com
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⭐ Help More Women Find This MessageLeave a review on Apple Podcasts and share this episode with a woman who needs this rescue.
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Oct 31, 2025

4 min

In this revealing episode of Girl, Date the Good Guy, host Emily Jordan teaches Christian women how to discern whether a relationship is sent by God to heal and grow you—or allowed to expose wounds and unhealthy patterns.
You’ll learn how charm, emotional attachment, and false promises can hide harmful intentions, while God-led relationships bring peace, spiritual alignment, and purpose. Through Scripture, prayer, and personal wisdom, Emily shares practical Christian dating advice on recognizing healthy love, guarding your heart, and breaking toxic relationship cycles.
If you’re healing from heartbreak, navigating dating after trauma, or learning how to trust God’s voice in relationships, this episode will equip you with clarity and confidence.
 
💌 Join The Holy Rescue Love Letters
Receive weekly encouragement, biblical truth, podcast updates, and behind-the-scenes moments from Emily straight to your inbox.
You’ll also be the first to know when new pieces are released from The Vault—a curated collection of creations, books, resources, and meaningful pieces designed to encourage your heart and remind you of the truths God is writing in your story.
Join the Love Letters and be part of the journey.
👉 https://girldatethegoodguy.com
🎧 Listen to Girl, Date the Good GuyFollow the show so you never miss an episode.
⭐ Help More Women Find This MessageLeave a review on Apple Podcasts and share this episode with a woman who needs this rescue.
🤍 Connect with Emilyhello@girldatethegoodguy.com

Oct 30, 2025

4 min

In this foundational episode of Girl, Date the Good Guy, host Emily Jordan unpacks God’s design for love and reveals how Christian women are meant to be treated in healthy, Christ-centered relationships.
Through Scripture, faith-based wisdom, and real-life insight, Emily outlines five essential principles of godly love: sacrificial love, honor and value, protection, partnership, encouragement, and support for your God-given calling. She teaches how these biblical standards reflect Christ’s love for His people and provide the blueprint for lasting, faith-filled relationships.
This episode also contrasts common dating red flags—such as belittling, control, fear, emotional manipulation, and conditional love—with healthy green flags like respect, emotional safety, spiritual leadership, humility, and consistent encouragement. You’ll gain practical Christian dating advice on developing discernment, establishing biblical relationship boundaries, and refusing to settle for spiritually misaligned or emotionally unavailable partners.
If you’re seeking God-led relationships, healing from heartbreak, or learning how to date God’s way, this episode will empower you to raise your standards, guard your heart, and pursue love rooted in faith, peace, and purpose.
Sis, you were never created for bare-minimum love. You were created for God’s very best.
 
💌 Join The Holy Rescue Love Letters
Receive weekly encouragement, biblical truth, podcast updates, and behind-the-scenes moments from Emily straight to your inbox.
You’ll also be the first to know when new pieces are released from The Vault—a curated collection of creations, books, resources, and meaningful pieces designed to encourage your heart and remind you of the truths God is writing in your story.
Join the Love Letters and be part of the journey.
👉 https://girldatethegoodguy.com
🎧 Listen to Girl, Date the Good GuyFollow the show so you never miss an episode.
⭐ Help More Women Find This MessageLeave a review on Apple Podcasts and share this episode with a woman who needs this rescue.
🤍 Connect with Emilyhello@girldatethegoodguy.com

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